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How You Can Positively Impact Others through Digital Discipleship

1/28/2019

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Mervi Kalmus

A pastor in Estonia and active digital disciple. 

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Mervi Kalmus, a pastor in Estonia, opens her heart and steps out of her comfort zone, to make a difference in the lives of her friends.

​FOR MY FRIENDS, PRAYER IS JUST ONE ‘LIKE’ AWAY

I am a very private person. I am certainly not one of those people who would constantly post ’Jesus Loves You’ memes or gospel songs on Facebook. Shouting out loud about my beliefs or life circumstances is really not my cup of tea. On the other hand, I am a devoted follower of Jesus and thus, under the jurisdiction of His Great Commission. This inevitably leads to moments when these two aspects of my life clash.
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Last September I could sense one of those clashes coming my way. For some time I had had it in my heart to offer my friends an opportunity for prayer. Yet the other, introverted, private part of me thought that I should not rush with it. Maybe the idea would leave if I remained quiet long enough. 

It did not leave. I had to pick up my courage and act. 

It was a Friday afternoon. I was on a train heading from London to Newbold and finally decided I could not ignore that little voice any more. It somehow helped me that I was on a vacation, away from Estonia, away from my usual surroundings, and away from the very people that I was about to reach out to, and whose criticism could intimidate or even hurt me. 

Sitting on the train, I opened my Facebook and wrote to all my Estonian friends. I told them I would take extra time for prayer the next day. If any of my friends wanted me to pray for them personally, they just needed to like my post. If they had any specific prayer request, they could private message me. Then I switched off my phone.

I was a little scared, not knowing what to expect or how to feel about the whole thing. What happened next, I certainly did not anticipate. 

Dozens and dozens of people liked and commented on my post, some of them writing me private messages and pouring their hearts out to me. And what a cross-section: young and old, Christians and atheists, close friends and mere acquaintances, straight and gay, housewives and pastors, and everything from students to one of the most acclaimed concert pianists in this country. 

People who chose to write to me told me about their struggles. They shared health problems and the burden of singleness, worries about their loved ones or the desire to serve God and His church yet not knowing how to do it. 
I read those messages late at night until I cried. The next morning, I dutifully wrote down all 76 names and prayed for each one of them. I was lucky to have a free Sabbath, a luxury a minister rarely has these days, because my private prayer meeting lasted for a half a day. 

It was toward Sabbath evening by the time I was done (read: exhausted) with my prayer meeting and wanted to take down my post from the previous evening when I received the most touching message of all. It came from a childhood acquaintance whom I had not seen for some 20 years. She asked if there was still any room in my prayer list and told me she would appreciate my prayers for her one-year-old son waiting for open heart surgery.
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She did not know how to pray so she was wondering whether I could help her. “Yes, of course,” I said. “I will pray.”

Phew! It turned out to be one of the hardest prayer battles in my life. I prayed for weeks for this little fellow who had to endure not one but two open heart surgeries and who almost did not come back to us. To this day his mother sends me photos and videos of his recovery and the ‘careless joy’ only little kids can have. I almost think of him as my own son now. While I have not been able to visit this family yet and have never seen this boy face to face, what a day it will be when I finally meet him!

This ’prayer experiment’ which I have later repeated for several times (with a lot less anxiety and much more confidence) has taught me some important lessons. ​

First, it has shown me the general longing in our hearts for someone to care enough to pray for us personally. We – both religious and non-religious – really do have this longing in us and as Christians we do well to remember it. 

It has also taught me about the potential and power of the social media. 

Facebook makes it so easy – can you imagine, a personal prayer just one ‘like’ away! There is no threshold lower than that! I know many of the people I’ve prayed for would not dare to set foot inside a church building, but a ‘like’! That is easy. It is doable. 

I have also learned more about the power of prayer than maybe ever before. In the weeks and months following my prayer adventure, I have received many happy and reassuring messages or calls: “Yes, the diagnosis was better then feared,” “This situation has solved,” “that problem has been taken care of.” “Thank you, thank you.” 

Of course, there are many people I have not heard from again. And they are probably the ones who have taught me the most important lesson of all – about the need to be persistent in prayer, whether I see results and hear the happy reports or not. God is not so much into public spectacles but foremost into quiet and invisible work in people’s hearts. And when I do not hear from the people, it just teaches me to be patient and continue praying.

I treasure the prayer lists I have from the past year. I love the stories I hear. I love the way I am much more engaged in my friends’ lives after having prayed for them. I care about them more now. I love going to a concert hall and listening to my favorite pianist with different ears (or, you could say, with a different heart) because I regularly lift him up in my prayers. ​​

I have equally come to treasure these beautiful words written by Adventist Church co-founder, Ellen White:
 “I saw that every prayer which is sent up in faith from an honest heart will be heard of God and answered, and the one that sent up the petition will have the blessing when he needs it most, and it will often exceed his expectations. Not a prayer of a true saint is lost if sent up in faith from an honest heart.” [Testimonies for the Church, vol 1, p 121] ​
Re-posted with permission from ted.adventist.org. Click here to view the original article. 
9 Comments
Marcos Sousa Serra Nunes link
1/30/2019 11:55:54 am

What a powerful history!
God bless your Ministry Pastor Mervi.

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Demis
1/30/2019 05:44:04 pm

Women pastors is abomination to God
Shame on Adventist Review

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Carol
1/30/2019 09:50:52 pm

Oh my...regardless of what I think on the matter, your reply, while you are trying to take a stand for Jesus, as I believe you think you are doing, is very judgemental and ugly- and wrong. No where does the Bible call a woman who is doing his work an abomination. But the Bible I read says God is love, and I don't hear any in your remark. Do not her actions show the love of God for others? What judgement is there in that, except for good? I must say, if all Adventist women were doing what Mervi is doing for Jesus, He could come tomorrow!

"Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind." I Peter 3:8

"Talk no more so very proudly, let not arrogance come from your mouth; for the Lord is a God of knowledge, and by him actions are weighed. ! Samuel 2:3

"And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ" Ephesians 4:11,12

Does this mean that only men are saints? Heaven forbid - we will never get there!

"There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus."

"even on my male servants and female servants in those days I will pour out my Spirit, and they shall prophesy."

Bless you, Mervi. Whatever your title, you are doing a brave and wonderful work for your Savior!

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Bobby
1/31/2019 07:06:20 am

I think that we as Adventists get confused about what ministry, minister,
ordained pastor, etc. is nothing but the same but we are reading into our own definitions of what has established. Yes, God wants all to be in ministry like home ministries, studies, leading people to Christ in a thousand supportive ways like even the kindergarten teacher who is the same as the ordained minister. We create our own beliefs separate from God to do our own thing like getting a nice salary, benefits, retirement which supportive ministries do not do. God desiged ministries for men, for women, for children, etc. and we cannot select ourselves. Do men thrive for women ministries directors? No?? We have women's ministries in our church and conferene and they do nothing except get together, do women talk, shop, etc. It's a joke! Bobby

Ron_in_Oklahoma
1/31/2019 07:43:31 am

As Adventists we are at our core about following Holy Scripture: The Bible. We all know what the Scripture says about women in leadership rolls. It seems to me to be clear, and is it is not some sort of unknown mystery.
If Adventists are going to bend to society's current norms and notions, how long do you think the SDA Church will last?
I have no desire to offend in writing this. I am not some kind of mysoganist. I have a wife, daughter, and three granddaughters who I all love and respect. I had no hand in creating what God's Word says about this subject, but I am trying to follow His Word.

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Herbert Williams
1/31/2019 11:56:26 am

Mervi,

God bless you--for reaching out as you did via Facebook and for sharing the story with us. It encourages me.

Despite some detractors here, God is the one who keeps track of your prayers and their ultimate result. In that great day of gathering in His presence, He will thank you for each one. Your dedicated work will receive God's "Well done, faithful servant."

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Janice link
2/1/2019 09:59:34 am

I guess I did not understand the article. I thought it was about a woman who God called to pray for others. I saw nothing in the article about women ministers. Yet I read these disgruntled comments. How sad. Has God called you to pray? He has called all of us to pray. I believe prayer is needed and not bashing the church. Really enjoyed this minister's thoughts and prayers.

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LeeAnn
2/3/2019 07:24:05 pm

What a tremendous inspiration! Thank you for being a caring courageous prayer warrior!

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Deb Krautwurst
2/5/2019 05:48:18 pm

It filled my heart with encouragement to see your bravery in stepping out to pray. I thought, that is a wonderful thing most anyone could do. The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few. Thank you for being willing. Thank you for sharing ... And try to forgive those who want persecute you. Keep looking up and sharing Jesus ❤️

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